How important is it for you to view someone as being "attractive" when viewing a romantic comedy? Does the choice of the leads in a romantic comedy have a bearing on whether or not you'll watch a given movie?
Let me start out by saying that I think being phycially attracted to someone is a VERY big deal. I think it's the cornerstone of any romantic relationship. It is the beginning, AND later as the relationship progresses it is the glue binds a relationship together. Without it, forget it; their is no REAL romantic relationship. You have to feel a physical attraction to that other person.
Now do I think that's where it ends? Of course not -- how shallow do you think I am, you fuck?! Of course their is the binding and interweaving of personalities; i.e. you can't emotionally hate the other person in a romantic relationship. BUT it all begins with physical attraction. That's the starting point. And that something that starts the process is physical attraction. Without it, why bother. I don't subscribe to any nonsense that insists you date someone and try to get to know them, hoping the physical attraction will come later. That is total bullshit. Why do I say this? Because when you date, whether you care to admit so or not, you're starting to bond with that other person. And if you start the process without being physically attracted to that other person you risk really hurting that other person when you're finally forced to admit that you're not attracted to them.
My point is: being attracted is a key starting point of a romantic relationship. Don't start dating or call a couple with ANYONE, until you honestly say you feel physically attracted to that person. If you're a "friend" of a member of the opposite sex, make sure they realize the status of that relationship, as sometimes that stuff gets confused. Then IF you find yourself being attracted to them later, great! Then begin the quest for a romantic relationship, but don't begin that quest until you honestly think they're hot.
I think I started forming my opinions on romantic relationships back in the 80s. Back in junior high, I remember reading the "Conan the Barbarian" series. I remember the paperback's cover art typically featured Conan, with weapon in hand, fighting a monster, with some scantily dressed, healthy girl clutching his leg.
Later came Paulina Poriskova. She was the only swimsuit model I ever had a poster of. And back in the mid-to-late 80s she was smoking hot. She ended up marrying Rick Ocakek of the pop band, The Cars. Good for her, I hope she's happy. But back in my junior and high school years Paulina Poriskova was the apiome of physical attraction: the most beautiful woman I had ever laid eyes on.
But as the years went on real life relationship with girls never materialized, but I continued to be attracted to them none-the-less, and then in the mid-90s I started getting into a genre of movies called romantic comedies.
The movie that got me hooked, was a sleeper hit from 1995, which starred Sandra Bullock and Bill Pullman entitled, "While You Were Sleeping". I was living in Boise, Idaho, at the time, and I swear I must have went to see that movie about 5 times in the theatre. Perhaps it's only fitting that my love for rom-coms began with one based in Chicago, Illinois, my hometown, where I grew up until the tender age of eleven. Sandra Bullockis so damn cute in that movie. Not runway model beautiful like Paula Poriskova is, just sweet and likeable. Sandra Bullock at her best.
Since then I've watched MANY romantic comedies. And noted the actresses who seam to frequent this genre.
Drew Barrymore. Overall impression: not very impressed. Seems to get by with her smile. Can't ever remember watching a Drew Barrymore movie where I thought Drew's acting was good comedy in action. Always thought Drew Barrymore was serviceable lead in romantic comedies, but nothing special.
Jennifer Aniston. This actress SHOULD have dominated the romantic comedy scene late-90s through the 2010. But she NEVER capitalized on her notoriety from NBC's "Friends" TV series. Now, I did just see a movie with Jennifer Aniston in it that I really liked, "Horrible Bosses" (2011). In it Jennifer plays a sex-craved dentist who constantly puts her male, dental assistant in compromising positions. Really thought Jennifer Aniston was excellent in that movie. Sexy AND funny -- but Jennifer wasn't the star in that movie, rather she was a supporting character. Hopefully in the future Jennifer Aniston can follow-up on that success, because in all honesty her film career is underwhelming. Jennifer Aniston is more of a tabloid queen than a ligament, rom-com heroine.
Katherine Heigl. Has become a rom-com enigma to me. She left "Grey's Anatomy" to pursue feature films. Just saw her in "One for the Money" (2012). And all I can say after seeing that dud is, WTF?! Really thought Katherine Heigl showed promise in movies like "Knocked Up" (2007) and "The Ugly Truth" (2009). I do believe the Katherine Heigl has the ability to transcend sub-par scripts and make movies better. This girl SHOULD have take the mantle from Meg Ryan, but to date, her career-work as a whole is undeserving of such an honor.
Andie MacDowell. Stared in a couple GREAT rom-coms: "Green Card" (1990: Gerald Depardieu), and "Groundhog Day" (1993: Bill Murray). But of all the lead actresses I've mentioned, Andie MacDowell is the one who I find rather unattractive.
Guess the key here is the strength of story -- especially as pertains to "Groundhog Day" which may be the best high concept rom-com of all-time.
As far a "Green Card" goes, I remember LOVING how Andie Macdowell bonded to Gerald Depardieu's character at the end of the movie, and didn't want to see him go. Good stuff.
Jennifer Garner. Has really come on strong as of late. In my humble opinion she totally stole the show from Russel Bland -- err... I mean Russel Brand in the remake of "Arthur" (2011).
Jennifer Garner has the girl-next-doorish appeal -- only she can swing comedy quite nicely too. LOVED Jennifer Garner in "13 Going on 30" (2004: Mark Ruffalo), and thought she did a nice job in "Ghosts of Girlfriends Past" (2009).
Sandra Bullock, Drew Barrymore, Jennifer Aniston, Katherine Heigl, Andie MacDowell, and Jennifer Garner. Quite the list I've composed, huh? All can pull-off a rom-com, but only Jennifer Anisiton would I consider a total hottie. And one, Andie MacDowell, by my own admission, isn't very physically attractive -- at least not to me!
Romance requires more than just physical attraction. It requires another key component: chemistry. So what is chemistry? Chemistry is the bonding of two people emotionally. Hook physical attraction and chemistry together, and over time you get love. Love is the unique bonding of physical attraction plus chemistry over time.
I'll always be attracted to girls like Kathy Ireland. Kathy Ireland is drop-dead gorgeous. BUT I also remember hearing Kathy Ireland speak -- and she sounded awfully weird. Great looks but once she opened her yap shit went sideways -- at least for me.
So what have we learned here: E.C. Henry is superficial as fuck -- all he cares about is runway models in bikinis. Not so. If that's what you think, you're TOTALLY mis-reading me. I'm a guy. Guys like beautiful women. That's just the way we're wired. Why I do believe that it was a pastor who once said in a sermon:
Sex is God's way of getting men interested.
That was said by pastor Wolfson at Church for All Nations in Spanaway, Washingon. You see even at the Christian pulpit they do talk about the inner nut-and-bolts between men and women.
Physical attraction is where the story begins, but it is not where it ends -- unless you're emotionally shallow and unwilling to take to the next level. This whole guy-girl thing is God's idea, but we get to chose: who we're attracted to, and who we eventually bond with.
After being physically attracted to a member of the opposite sex it is only natural to attempt to take it to the next level. Dating is where the whole chemistry thing developes. Sure, you can have a friendship, then over time it blossoms into a romance. But I believe it all begins with physical attraction. Don't have that, you don't have any chance of having a lasting love. And along the way of progressing towards love, who knows, you might even have moments like this:
Which may end up with you experiencing a moment, something akin to this:
- E.C. Henry from Bonney Lake, WA
P.S. I'm still hard at work on my newest spec. Having a ball exploring the new world I'm creating, and discovering the characters therein, and what they're all about. Not quite ready to start writing the 1st draft -- but I'm close.
P.S.S. It's with great sadness that I report the demise of "Creative Screenwriting." Got an e-mail a couple days ago inviting me to a gathering where they were selling off their office equipment and computers. Had a subscription to "Creative Screenwriting" a few years back, but then they just stopped sending issues... Guess this means the end of the Screenwriting Expo in Los Angeles, which they sponsored. Will really miss that. I attended four of them over the years.
P.S.S.S. Sorry about my lack of regular post lately. The goal remains the same. Post one content post over the weekend, and one smaller post during the week. Will try to get back on track this week. Till then stay well.